Quality of Relationships

The quality of the relationships in our life can only ever be as good as the one we have with ourselves. The sad fact is that we can only ever receive love the way we are capable of giving love. Most people have enormous trouble loving themselves as we have been raised to recognise our faults and to downplay our finer points. We can’t be seen to be ‘up ourselves’, can we?

A relationship is any meaningful interaction between ourselves and another person or group of people. So if we are continually having difficulty in our interactions with others we need to look carefully at ourselves in order to fix the problem. It is not possible to change anyone else, so we are left with no…